Thinking About My Life

Im realizing now that I am where I am because of me..man..God is so good..do you ever just think sometimes..why does He even bother with me..I do some of the craziest things..even when i know better..and feel like a DOG when looking back on it..what did He ever do to me to make me not want to fully serve Him..

I have so much peace in my life..I sleep great..Im not a worrier..I thank God for allowing me to see first hand who my real friends are NOW instead of me struggling to figuring it out down the road..I still live with my parents..theyre giving me the opportunity to save money and get myself together before I decide to move out...theyve been married for 23 years..Ive never seen verbal, physical, or sexual abuse in my home..I was brought up in the church..I honestly have so much knowledge alone spiritually I could write a book..books actually..I live in a good neighborhood..I have a pretty good job..no kids..no HUGE responsibilities..no "man" issues..no relationship..no stress..im not constantly thinking about who's out to get me for what I have..

Have I been taking advantage of all of this..no..I thank God for bringing it to my attention that I need to set up a blog because I can get a lot off my chest and actually sit and read my innermost thoughts..I dont know...its not enough for people to tell me or me to think about it..just seeing it in words does so much more..

God put me on this earth for a reason..im getting there..I know that apart of my purpose is to do GREAT things with my life to inspire and help others..I am blessed beyond measure with what I have already...and I pray that everytime someone reads my blog it encourages them to do better for themselves...Its time out for being lazy..make some big moves..no time for the games or the setbacks..enough of watching others live their dreams..its time to do me..and you need to do you..forget what others might say or how they feel about it..let go of the dream killers or if it isnt that easy to let go...use them as motivation..

R.T.B.H (update)

Tuesday I went to the gym early..I didnt stay on the treadmill too long..I think I did about 20 or so minutes but I got a well rounded workout none the less...i had about a good 45 minutes to myself in there so I was able to take full advantage of it...I'll post pics of the machines I use..sooner or later..

I still need to drink waaaaaaaaaaaay more water...for the remainder of the summer Ill try my best to stay away from the cold drinks..a new fav. of mine is Fuze Green Tea/Black and Green Tea...im also starting to like that vitamin water..so between those drinks..some regular fasting (not just for the body but for the spirit as well)...Ill be in pretty good shape..

Anyways..I didnt go yesterday because my muscles were..well..they werent aching but..i dont know how to describe it..I was going to go today but there was a change of plans..what I will do though is pop in my pilates dvd..I know I have Yoga and Tae Bo here too but Im not really that into it..maybe later on in the summer depending on how I feel..

Ready To Be Healthy (update)

so today i got up early..made it to the gym around 10ish..i was the first one to pull up..makes me wish i got there a few minutes ahead of time and i wouldve had it to myself..but people started to show up after i got in..anyways...my original plan was to do 45 minutes..about 15 in i was like..ya know what..dont worry about it..ill just do 35 (lol)...tell me why im watching the view and start tweeting from the treadmill and found some of my people were watching it too...thanx to sb and sammie getting me hype i did 49 minute!!!!

after that went off i got on the leg push thingy..(ill find out the name tomorrow) and did a few reps on 70lbs...lol tell me why this guy got on after i got off and changed it to 50..he could barely do that so of course im cracking UP on the inside..like dude..man up..seriously..lol

anywho..today was a good day..drank a couple bottles of water..i know i should have gotten more than that..i need to try to kick it up a notch and step my game up..

Random Thought

since the love of money is the root of all evil..one of the hardest lessons to learn in life is that people youve known all your life..be it friends OR family...will scheme to get money from you...years of knowing each other means nothing...thats a lesson i had to learn just here lately but the fact still remains that God supplies all my needs and if this person thought they were getting over on me and I just have a blind eye to whats going on..they have another thing coming...honestly..i will let it go...i wont even bring it up again..some people may think its crazy...the way i see it is that you reap what you sow...you may have thought you were doing something and will never get caught but God knows and sees all things...lol funny thing about it is if i REALLY wanted to get it back..i can..i may have went into the situation ignorant of what was going on..i didnt bother to collect a receipt (why??) because i was so trusting...funny..i actually have proof now and they dont even realize it..will i use it against them..no..theyre lucky it was me and not somebody else though..everybody isnt very forgiving...i am taking this as a lesson learned because nothing has happened to me like this before...you know how you always hear people talking about it and its not the fact that you dont think it will ever happen to you..its just that it just never crosses your mind until it DOES happen..experience is the best teacher..but its a shame this person lost out on a friend like me...

words to the wise...if anybody asks you for money..be it family or so called friend...this is the way you find out if they plan on paying you back or not...tell them "yea sure you can borrow whatever you like but i need you to sign this document first..stating the amount and when youre going to pay me back" lol...now if they say okay no problem and sign it with no hesitation..by all means..if you can..go ahead and loan it to them..but if they look at you craaaaazy crazy and say "uh nevermind"...lol you already know what you wouldve been dealing with..

Ready To Be Healthy

okay so my tsmb girls along with myself are on a mission to get in shape...obviously for health reasons..a number of us have banned together and are in the process of getting in/back in the gym..buying fitness dvd (lol) and doing whatever we can to be healthy..of course exercising is just one part of it..you must eat right or else whats the point...anyways i will be doing very frequent updates on how im doing..i may even post some before and after pics..maybe (lol)..but aside from that i will also be posting tips on what you can do to make this process a very easy one...sooooo stay tuned :)

Random Thoughts

why is common sense not so common these days...i shake my head at a lot of the things going on in the world...its a known fact that we are born into a place of problems/trials and so forth already...why would you willingly add on to the ones that are already promised to you

A Message to the Cheater

today a girl that i follow on twitter posted this link to a comment this guy left her..even though it was VERY long lol..one of the things that stuck out was when he said "cheating is the most immature thing you can do in a relationship"...if youre going to mess around..why not just leave that person and let them be with someone who will remain faithful if you wont...why play mind games...it does not make you a "real man" when you strive to see how many women you can handle...a real man has self control...thats really what it boils down to...ladies ladies ladies...that whole double standard thing is getting extremely tired.."if a man cheats its okay but if i do it im a hoe"...take it how you want it..that still doesnt make it right...i was in this video chat with a "celebrity"...he was kind enough to take the time out and talk to his fans..the topic of cheating came up and one of the ladies asked why do men cheat... he goes on to talk about how what one woman lacks..if she doesnt step it up and a new chick comes along with that "said quality"...a man(not necessarily him) is bound to cheat..which i thought was so stupid lol...this was when the 80/20 rule was brought up..*why did i get married*..in a relationship you are going to only get atleast 80% of what you need..but here comes this person with the other 20 and you think youre doing something because you "got what you were missing"..which 9 times out of 10 you realize that it wasnt even worth it and in some cases it may be too late...why establish a relationship when sometimes going INTO it you know you arent going to do right by them...its too much going around to be bed hopping...why put yourself in a place where youd fall into temptation and you know youre going to regret it later...at the end of the day..it all comes down to self control

The Purpose of Domi's Theory

i decided to create this blog for the simple fact that i have a lot to say...but since im naturally a soft spoken person, ive always found an outlet in "typing out" my thoughts for the simple fact that i can get my point across and go details without being interrupted and sidetracked..if that makes sense...here you will find mostly my opinions, a lot of God-given truths, and just random thoughts that i may have...i welcome all comments as long as they remain respectful...with that being said..i hope you all enjoy my blog...