Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Just Another Rant..

now yall know domi love the kids but man..these attitudes are NOT cute...i work as a substitute and ive seen some..stuff..taking a look at the parents..i understood..i was in a position where i worked as a secretary for a couple months..ive seen fights..parents and teachers going back and forth..i knew the kids well enough to know what happened before the parents got to the school and to my amazement..these parents were upholding their kids in ALL their wrong..my mom knew off top that if a teacher called the house..whatever they said i did..she knew it was true..

it was my second day as a sub and i had i think it was a 4th grade class..it was pretty small so i was good..so were lining up to go to recess when this girl calls another student a b****...im close enough by to where i heard it for myself and then all the kids was like ooooooooohhhhh...so i had to pause for a second like..did she say..*looks at the child* girl did you say what i think u said..she told me yes..now i gotta send somebody to the office my 2nd day..smh..somehow there was a mix up and the lady in the office told me her mom wanted to speak to me..man..the convo i had with this lady FREAKED me out..like..how simple can you be..some people dont need to have kids man..i put that on everything i love..this lady was like i understand the situation but i dont think my child said that..maybe the kids heard wrong..theyre always picking on her..blah blah blah..im like no ma'am..i heard her myself..she said the word..and when i asked her to confirm it she told me yes she did say it..so this lady goes on talking about how her child doesnt talk like that at home *pause* on a serious tip..THATS WHEN YOU DO YOUR DIRT..AWAY FROM HOME!!!! especially at school..thats your opportunity to show out in front of your little friends..and i told her that..using myself as an example so i wouldnt come off too harsh..and then shes like well im thinking about taking my child from the school because its always something either with the kids or with the teachers..im like okay..first of all *not to her* common sense should have kicked in..im only the SUB..this is my 2nd day on the job..i dont know your kid from the next so its impossible for me to pinpoint her and just make something up..that just really..idk..it did something to me..like with the way the child talked to her mom when i have her the phone..and for her to just allow it..that bothers me..

i personally feel that if you do not discipline your child..you dont love them..atleast not as much as you claim/think you do..people in this world are VERY cruel..school kids are even worse..why would you set them up like that..a lot of the kids with the attitude problems arent very well liked and im telling you what i know because i havent been out of school for that long to have forgotten..these teachers have it so hard man..to deal with that from 7 30 to 3..go home..deal with their family..homework..lesson plans...and then start the whole process over again..thats tough..and typically theres more than 1 in the class..i stand by the fact that the highest paid profession should be in whatever category of a teacher...just the attitudes alone should be a few grands extra..

My Thoughts On Michael Jackson & Dr. Murray

first of all..i love me some michael..but that was extremely careless on his part to even request that sort of medicine knowing full well that its supposed to only be used in hospitals..so in some ways..he is responsible for his own death..he used his "fame" to his advantage..him being mj could ask for whatever he wanted and knew it would be given to him at any cost..i do believe he knew full well what he was doing and didnt have to look far to find what he was looking for..but it was dr. conrad murray who should have known better..his medical license should be stripped away from him..do i think he needs to spend the rest of his life behind bars?? no..but he definitely should spend sometime there..i dont think his intentions were to kill him but i do believe that he knew the consequences and tried to take as many precautions as he could but we all know the ending results thereof..

R.I.P Michael..you will truly be missed..

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

What is Success?

suc⋅cess⋅ful

[suhk-ses-fuhl]

–adjective
1. achieving or having achieved success.
2. having attained wealth, position, honors, or the like.
3. resulting in or attended with success.



People think that if you have money, lots of friends, clothes, jewelry, or whatever, that qualifies them as being successful. Sadly enough, thats the biggest lie ever told. The greater majority of those people that have these trivial things are the main ones that when its all said and done..are still missing something but for the life of them cant figure out what it is..

REAL success is having a peace of mind..being in your RIGHT mind..having true happiness that cannot be faked..having loving people around you that wont try to take advantage of you..having the proper relationships with family and friends..money obtained legally through hard work on top of additional blessing from God.

(Josh 1:8) - the key to success the right way...

God is GREAT lol

ive been seeking him and the answers to my problems have become so clear..honestly..it was always right dead SMACK in my face but I was so blinded to it..ive been saying my Ephesians prayers pretty regularly and the results have been AMAZING...i just got a letter from the secretary of state with a LOT of information i need to start up my business as far as permits and licenses...this is something i should have done a VERY long time ago but then again..a long time ago..i wouldnt have been prepared...shout out to Trey Songz too..his latest album entitled "Ready" means so much more to me now..im getting ready for a lot of changes in my life..not only myself but many others around me..i just love the fact that his album has THAT title and is coming out at this point in my life...i wont be like others and hog all the information..i have NO problem sharing...as i take this journey to the top..id love for you all to come with me..here in this blog i will be posting information on what you can do to make your dreams come true..

before i start off though..the MAIN thing you have to do is always always ALWAYS put and keep God first...it wont work the way it could if you do not..He has a lot in store for us..Im reaping the benefits now and He gets all the credit because i have enough sense to know that i wouldnt be where i am if it was not for him..