A Message to the Cheater

today a girl that i follow on twitter posted this link to a comment this guy left her..even though it was VERY long lol..one of the things that stuck out was when he said "cheating is the most immature thing you can do in a relationship"...if youre going to mess around..why not just leave that person and let them be with someone who will remain faithful if you wont...why play mind games...it does not make you a "real man" when you strive to see how many women you can handle...a real man has self control...thats really what it boils down to...ladies ladies ladies...that whole double standard thing is getting extremely tired.."if a man cheats its okay but if i do it im a hoe"...take it how you want it..that still doesnt make it right...i was in this video chat with a "celebrity"...he was kind enough to take the time out and talk to his fans..the topic of cheating came up and one of the ladies asked why do men cheat... he goes on to talk about how what one woman lacks..if she doesnt step it up and a new chick comes along with that "said quality"...a man(not necessarily him) is bound to cheat..which i thought was so stupid lol...this was when the 80/20 rule was brought up..*why did i get married*..in a relationship you are going to only get atleast 80% of what you need..but here comes this person with the other 20 and you think youre doing something because you "got what you were missing"..which 9 times out of 10 you realize that it wasnt even worth it and in some cases it may be too late...why establish a relationship when sometimes going INTO it you know you arent going to do right by them...its too much going around to be bed hopping...why put yourself in a place where youd fall into temptation and you know youre going to regret it later...at the end of the day..it all comes down to self control