since the love of money is the root of all evil..one of the hardest lessons to learn in life is that people youve known all your life..be it friends OR family...will scheme to get money from you...years of knowing each other means nothing...thats a lesson i had to learn just here lately but the fact still remains that God supplies all my needs and if this person thought they were getting over on me and I just have a blind eye to whats going on..they have another thing coming...honestly..i will let it go...i wont even bring it up again..some people may think its crazy...the way i see it is that you reap what you sow...you may have thought you were doing something and will never get caught but God knows and sees all things...lol funny thing about it is if i REALLY wanted to get it back..i can..i may have went into the situation ignorant of what was going on..i didnt bother to collect a receipt (why??) because i was so trusting...funny..i actually have proof now and they dont even realize it..will i use it against them..no..theyre lucky it was me and not somebody else though..everybody isnt very forgiving...i am taking this as a lesson learned because nothing has happened to me like this before...you know how you always hear people talking about it and its not the fact that you dont think it will ever happen to you..its just that it just never crosses your mind until it DOES happen..experience is the best teacher..but its a shame this person lost out on a friend like me...
words to the wise...if anybody asks you for money..be it family or so called friend...this is the way you find out if they plan on paying you back or not...tell them "yea sure you can borrow whatever you like but i need you to sign this document first..stating the amount and when youre going to pay me back" lol...now if they say okay no problem and sign it with no hesitation..by all means..if you can..go ahead and loan it to them..but if they look at you craaaaazy crazy and say "uh nevermind"...lol you already know what you wouldve been dealing with..
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